We used to live in Kaikohe for 23 years from 1981-2004 working with the United Maori Mission (UMM). During that time we used to run a meeting for children in the play centre in Ohaeawai. At the play centre was a poster with the title Children learn what they live. When I read that I was very impressed with what I read but did not write it down.

How pleased was I today when I came across the writing again in the bookshop here in Kaitaia. The author is Dorothy Law Nolte.

If a child lives with criticism, He learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, He learns to fight. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy. If a child lives with shame, He learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with tolerance, He learns to be patient. If a child lives with encouragement, He learns confidence. If a child lives with praise, He learns to appreciate. If a child lives with fairness, He learns justice. If a child lives with security, He learns to have faith. If a child lives with approval, He learns to like himself. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, He learns to find love in the world.