A brother in Christ told me this story:  (it was in Mangonui)

The man had it in his heart to commit suicide. But there was still a little glimmer of light left in his life when he entered a church and hoped for help. –  Nobody noticed him and bothered with him.

All the lights went out when he left the church. Later on he ran into a fisher of men (Matthew 4:19;  Mark 1:17), a real soulwinner, and did not only find the Lord, but became an evangelist himself.